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> <channel><title>Comments on: When the universe decides to test you&#8230;</title> <atom:link href="http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/when-the-universe-decides-to-test-you/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" /><link>http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/when-the-universe-decides-to-test-you/</link> <description></description> <lastBuildDate>Wed, 08 Sep 2010 14:16:09 +0000</lastBuildDate> <generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2</generator> <sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod> <sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency> <item><title>By: Jacki Dilley</title><link>http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/when-the-universe-decides-to-test-you/comment-page-1/#comment-1754</link> <dc:creator>Jacki Dilley</dc:creator> <pubDate>Mon, 17 May 2010 04:03:26 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/?p=1192#comment-1754</guid> <description>Are you still taking comments? This post is so real -- we speak eloquently about accepting what is, letting go of control, and then our keys get lost in the sand........I bet the lesson from the Universe here is: go easy on yourself when you lose some surfing time because you &quot;had&quot; to find your keys.
.-= Jacki Dilley&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://jdilley.wordpress.com/2010/05/15/simplicity-and-work/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Simplicity and Work&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Are you still taking comments? This post is so real &#8212; we speak eloquently about accepting what is, letting go of control, and then our keys get lost in the sand&#8230;&#8230;..</p><p>I bet the lesson from the Universe here is: go easy on yourself when you lose some surfing time because you &#8220;had&#8221; to find your keys.<br
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isPermaLink="false">http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/?p=1192#comment-1064</guid> <description>I think the story there are some definite layers to that onion. I&#039;ll have to remember to &quot;just surf&quot; when things are just simply out of your control. Most of the time we have the ability to change how we feel and act, but no always our circumstances. Like being snowed in at an airport or losing your keys. For those occasions I guess we&#039;ll have to learn how to surf.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think the story there are some definite layers to that onion. I&#8217;ll have to remember to &#8220;just surf&#8221; when things are just simply out of your control. Most of the time we have the ability to change how we feel and act, but no always our circumstances. Like being snowed in at an airport or losing your keys. For those occasions I guess we&#8217;ll have to learn how to surf.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Srinivas Rao</title><link>http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/when-the-universe-decides-to-test-you/comment-page-1/#comment-1004</link> <dc:creator>Srinivas Rao</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sun, 10 Jan 2010 16:30:07 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/?p=1192#comment-1004</guid> <description>@Sarah:I can&#039;t say I blame you for laughing. If I pictured this incident in my head happening to someone else I think I&#039;ve have a good laugh too :). So maybe that&#039;s another lesson to be taken from this.@Gilbert: It&#039;s really amazing that if I had let go of my desire to have such control over this situation how much more at peace I would have been. Definitely a concept worth exploring in a few articles.@Oscar: Yeah I might have found the keys. The most positive thing I could have done in that moment is go back out and surf. The waves were just getting better and better during this time.
.-= Srinivas Rao&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/PersonalDevelopmentSelf-improvementPersonalGrowthEducation/~3/ZtENkBxZ55k/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;When the universe decides to test you…&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Sarah:I can&#8217;t say I blame you for laughing. If I pictured this incident in my head happening to someone else I think I&#8217;ve have a good laugh too <img
src='http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> . So maybe that&#8217;s another lesson to be taken from this.</p><p>@Gilbert: It&#8217;s really amazing that if I had let go of my desire to have such control over this situation how much more at peace I would have been. Definitely a concept worth exploring in a few articles.</p><p>@Oscar: Yeah I might have found the keys. The most positive thing I could have done in that moment is go back out and surf. The waves were just getting better and better during this time.<br
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isPermaLink="false">http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/?p=1192#comment-1003</guid> <description>At the end, it&#039;s up to you how you react form a situation, but in this particular case when you realized the keys were not there I would have done something funny, which in turn would have increased positiveness and positive vibrations, and who knows, maybe you would have found you keys :D
.-= Oscar - freestyle mind&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/FreestyleMind/~3/gu3blG5hIQw/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Interview With Dragos Roua&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>At the end, it&#8217;s up to you how you react form a situation, but in this particular case when you realized the keys were not there I would have done something funny, which in turn would have increased positiveness and positive vibrations, and who knows, maybe you would have found you keys <img
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isPermaLink="false">http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/?p=1192#comment-1002</guid> <description>Your post came in such a timely fashion Srini! I was just starting to write a post about the Zen of non-resistance to life and the power which comes with letting go of control and dancing with  the flow.Yet I know it&#039;s hard to read the signs sometimes especially when you are in a bad patch. Incidentally, it happened to me today. So I make it a point to learn to be more aware for those signs.Thank you for motivating me further!!</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Your post came in such a timely fashion Srini! I was just starting to write a post about the Zen of non-resistance to life and the power which comes with letting go of control and dancing with  the flow.</p><p>Yet I know it&#8217;s hard to read the signs sometimes especially when you are in a bad patch. Incidentally, it happened to me today. So I make it a point to learn to be more aware for those signs.</p><p>Thank you for motivating me further!!</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Sarah</title><link>http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/when-the-universe-decides-to-test-you/comment-page-1/#comment-1000</link> <dc:creator>Sarah</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sat, 09 Jan 2010 15:00:59 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/?p=1192#comment-1000</guid> <description>This post made me laugh - not because I enjoy your misfortune, but because I have done that so many times myself. The amount of times that I have spent aaaaaaaaagggggggggeeeeeees looking for something that i absolutely cannot find, haven&#039;t found it and then gone back looking for it again. It drives me nuts!
And it&#039;s like you said: doing the same thing and expecting a different result.Personally, I think it&#039;s just a way of reminding me not to be such a control freak trying to do the impossible and to stop assuming that I can actually control the situation anyway. And learning to let go. I need to let go of things sometimes.
.-= Sarah&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://methinksrandom.blogspot.com/2010/01/judgement-pressure-and-blogging.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Judgement, pressure and blogging&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This post made me laugh &#8211; not because I enjoy your misfortune, but because I have done that so many times myself. The amount of times that I have spent aaaaaaaaagggggggggeeeeeees looking for something that i absolutely cannot find, haven&#8217;t found it and then gone back looking for it again. It drives me nuts!<br
/> And it&#8217;s like you said: doing the same thing and expecting a different result.</p><p>Personally, I think it&#8217;s just a way of reminding me not to be such a control freak trying to do the impossible and to stop assuming that I can actually control the situation anyway. And learning to let go. I need to let go of things sometimes.<br
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isPermaLink="false">http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/?p=1192#comment-998</guid> <description>@Henri: It&#039;s weird that it was an avalanche of pain in the ass things to deal with. But, what&#039;s interesting is what this girl who was a potential roommate said to me is that a bunch of really good stuff is about to happen to you@Kenji: I think maybe the lesson was not to worry about that kind of stuff an getting caught up all in this nonsense.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Henri: It&#8217;s weird that it was an avalanche of pain in the ass things to deal with. But, what&#8217;s interesting is what this girl who was a potential roommate said to me is that a bunch of really good stuff is about to happen to you</p><p>@Kenji: I think maybe the lesson was not to worry about that kind of stuff an getting caught up all in this nonsense.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Kenji Crosland</title><link>http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/when-the-universe-decides-to-test-you/comment-page-1/#comment-997</link> <dc:creator>Kenji Crosland</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 08 Jan 2010 17:37:44 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/?p=1192#comment-997</guid> <description>I probably would have done the same thing. It&#039;s immensely difficult to let go of immediate crises no matter how small or unimportant they might be in the grand scheme of things. Sometimes I&#039;ve managed to catch myself in the moment of fretting and adopt the long term perspective and &quot;go surf&quot; but most of the times I don&#039;t. Letting little problems that pop up in your face bother you is a tough habit to break.
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isPermaLink="false">http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/?p=1192#comment-996</guid> <description>Wow, that&#039;s amazing. Something else that I&#039;ve bumped into is that it is mercury retrograde now. I don&#039;t know what exactly that means but it has something to do with mercury (the planet) and it causes small bad stuff to happen. Weird and interesting.I think it&#039;s funny how sometimes when one bad thing happens it releases an avalanche of things.
.-= Henri @ Wake Up Cloud&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.wakeupcloud.com/how-to-use-law-of-attraction/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;How to Use the Law of Attraction&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow, that&#8217;s amazing. Something else that I&#8217;ve bumped into is that it is mercury retrograde now. I don&#8217;t know what exactly that means but it has something to do with mercury (the planet) and it causes small bad stuff to happen. Weird and interesting.</p><p>I think it&#8217;s funny how sometimes when one bad thing happens it releases an avalanche of things.<br
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