How to Stop Flushing Your Time Down the Toilet

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I may not be a time management ninja, but I do think a bit about how to utilize my time. Time is the most precious asset at our disposal, but we don’t treat it accordingly.  Would you spend your hard earned money buying useless low quality crap that will never bring any real value to your life? Would you flush money down the toilet?  I think the answer is obvious.

But take a look at how so many of us spend our time and you’ll see that we probably could have used some time management lessons to go along with those 14 personal finance lessons that we never learned in school.  We flush our time down the toilet on many pointless endeavors. Don’t get me wrong. I think some guilty pleasures are ok.  My favorite TV show of all time was The OC. You might say I have the pop culture taste of a teenage girl. However, when people tell me they don’t have time for things I tend to be fairly unsympathetic because unlike money, time is something we all get an equal amount of.  No matter who you are, you only have 24 hours in a day.  But let’s take a look at how the average person manages time and how they can start to spend some of it  on activities that have a higher ROI than watching 90210 (yes, I watch that too).

  • Work:  Work takes up the majority of our lives, which is why it’s extremely important to pay attention to those warning signs that you are about to end up in a job that you hate.  A conservative  estimate is that the average person works 8 hours a day.  But let’s say you’re above average(which i’d assume anybody who reads my blog is), then you work 10 hours a day. That’s 50 hours a week. I’m sure there are many of you who work over 60 hours. More power to you.
  • Sleep:  Let’s say you sleep 8 hours every night.  Assuming you have no major health issues or anything else going on, that should be sufficient. That’s 40 hours a week sleeping.
  • Meals: If you cook, this might take a bit more time. But let’s allot 2 hours each day for all your meals which includes, breakfast, lunch and dinner. That’s 10 hours a week spent eating. I’m going to leave off the time spent on snacking, etc.
  • Exercise:  Most of you are not crazy like me and don’t average 3-4 hour surf sessions.   So let’s say that you exercise 1 hour a day.  That’s 7 hours a week.

This results is a 107 hours each week, which leaves you with roughly 61 hours every single week.  That’s  almost 3000 hours over the course of a year. The question you have to ask yourself now is exactly how you are spending that additional time?  How much of it are you flushing down the toilet? 

Taking Advantage of Necessary Evils

Commuting, running errands, and driving places to get things done is necessary. But that doesn’t mean it has to be completely useless time.  I used to spend 3 hours a day in the car for my first job out of college. I could have mastered a foreign language or a number of other skills. Instead I mastered the use of four letter expletives.  You spend quite a bit of time in your car each week.  In fact, I’d recommend you do a little experiment. Keep track of just how much time you’re driving for one week. Then decide on some skill you want to learn, and turn your car into a classroom on wheels.

One of my friends has reached a rather dangerous point in his job. He’s getting paid well, is comfortable, and bored out of his mind. This is the point at which progress really comes to a halt. But the sad thing is that when he comes home from work he doesn’t have the motivation to work towards changing the situation. This is where our need for instant gratification gets us into real trouble. That need is so strong it keeps us from taking the first step and before we know it years have gone by.

Time is such a precious asset, one that I don’t think we place nearly enough value on it. Just remember that the saddest thing in life is wasted potential, which is often the byproduct of a poor use of time.

 

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AnnieAndreHacks 27 pts

I totally get this post Srinivas,

Time is more valuable than gold. With three kids in tow and trying to start up a business while we are living abroad in France, we are on a budget so i can't resort to my old tricks of hiring a nanny or house cleaner or giving the kids a 50 dollar bill to go and see a movie at their every whim. Every spare moment has been optimized to maximize my day and my time. I'll say one thing though, on my spreadsheet of life, i have a column labled family time and fun. It's crucial to making my life sustainable.

I still have my guilty pleasures and watch Dexter every week. I'm only human and need to waste a LITTLE time non?

Merry Christmas, hope Santa brings you lots of good tidings.

skooloflife 119 pts moderator

AnnieAndreHacks I think we all need to waste a little time and I think that you've done is incredibly admirable. Most people would use all the things you mentioned as excuses for why they couldn't do. I think this is really targeted at the people who seem to be experts at wasting time and complaining about their lack of it..

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MADphilips 6 pts

Yet another great read Srinivas,

followed you down here from your guest post at businesses grow about the 3 dangerous social media metrics. Great read too.

I share your views about time too, in fact i recently just wrote about the 5Cs of time management for entrepreneurs, I have linked back to this post in the article. Most of the time we just flush away our lives with the careless way we use our time. If you asked me, i just think our time and life is one and the same. use your time rubbishly and see your life go down the drain. Funny enough, people guard their money more jealously than they guard their time, I think that is so unwise. Because of the two, one is replaceable while the other isn't. I can always make back money lost [replaceable resource], but I can never get back time lost forever [irreplaceable resource].

Thanks for sharing and nice work with the site. I am a student of the skool of life too :)

Nice meeting you brother!

skooloflife 119 pts moderator

MADphilips I think you really hit the nail on the head when you said that one is replaceable and the other is not. Such a true statement. Money seems to come and go, but time just flies as we get older. Glad to find another student of the skool of life to connect with. I actually checked you out on Google+ and I'm glad to see people from all over the world are enrolled in The Skool of Life.

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Bryan Thompson 23 pts

Srinivas, I'm with you on the unsympathetic thing. I feel the same way. I will say that I don't get 8 hours of sleep at night. No health problems. I just have 3 small kids that wake up at 5 am everyday. My evenings and mornings are precious time I use to network and blog. I figure If I can inspire somebody in that time, it's worth something!

skooloflife 119 pts moderator

Bryan Thompson | ElevationLife It's people like you that make me want to smack the people with none of those commitments who flush their time down the toilet. While I have more time at my disposal than the average person at the moment because I'm not working full time, even when I did have a job I used my time wisely. I had my guilty pleasures, but they weren't absorbing my life.

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Bryan Thompson 23 pts

skooloflife I don't think there's wrong with guilty pleasures when it makes you happy. If it brings you enormous amounts of joy, do it. It's not wasted time. We all find the time to do the things we love. A gambler may have a habit I don't think is healthy, but as long as he isn't squandering his kids' college money or robbing a casino, his indulgences at Caesar's Palace makes him feel alive.

skooloflife 119 pts moderator

Bryan Thompson | ElevationLife If he wins it's even better. I used to enjoy gambling, but I realized it was a hobby that i'd have to table until I was really rich to really enjoy it, HEHE.

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Craig McBreen 285 pts

Hey Srini,

Don't feel bad about "The OC," my wife an I used to watch "Melrose Place" :) Talk about guilty pleasures. Oh well, now it's out in the open. :)

And, funny about your driving: "I mastered the use of four letter expletives." How true. I used to be the same way, but I've completely changed and now drive like an old lady doing … guess what … Listeniing to BlogCast FM! Seriously. Well, not all the time, but that's usually when I listen. I'm listening to less news (used to be a total news junkie) and started downloading great podcasts for the ride home. I'm learning more and am less stressed.

Anyway, love this post! I read a great post over at John Falchetto's blog today about time management as well.

skooloflife 119 pts moderator

Craig McBreen I watch the new Melrose place as well. Or at least I did until they canceled it. I'm not sure what it is about this teeny bopper crap I like so much. MAybe it's because I wasn't one of the cool kids in high school. I always am slightly amused when people tell me they listen to BlogcastFM in their car. Hopefully we'll be helping people turn their daily commute into the life of their dreams (damn, that might be a nice tagline). HEHE. I've got to get over to John's blog and talk see what its' all about today.

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Suzi Banks Baum 5 pts

Hi Srinvas,

There is one thing you have left off in this list, or one way in which all of time improves and that is with connection. To another person, to an organization, to nature- to whatever brings you joy, is something that multiplies time, not takes away from it. To think of time solely as a way to create value- which is admirable, efficient and productive misses the importance of time. I don't know anyone dies thinking, "I wish I had worked more". That is one reason why I like your work, I was intrigued by you because you surf- and not just casually, you changed your whole life to support what brings you joy. And I think this makes your work much more inspired and interesting. I think even a car ride can bring you joy if you fill that time- say with music, or the language tapes you mention or a daily gratitude practice. This is a thought provoking post, for sure. Thanks! Love, S

skooloflife 119 pts moderator

Suzi Banks Baum You bring up a great point Suzi and it's something I of all people shouldn't have left off this list considering I value that connection to nature so much. In fact, time to connect ultimately will make us more happy and productive in the long run. Good to know that I'll never die thinking I wish I had worked more :)

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EnsoJourney 15 pts

Totally agree with you on this one.

back when I used to commute to work, I would spend at least 2 hours sometimes 3 going around in the subway. One day i decided to pop up my iPod and make it a book reader. I learned to code different things in wordpress and a lot about web design.

Time is truly valuable, and perhaps we as entrepreneurs must value it even more.

SeanDavis 11 pts

Here's a note about the time spent in a car. Some say, and I would agree, that there are two different types of time:

1. Flexible Time - Time that can be spent doing multiple things. An example would be cooking and cleaning up the kitchen at the same time. We do that everyday in my home.

2. Committed Time - Time that can only be spent doing one thing. An example would be rock climbing. I'm going to need you to focus on climbing that rock 100%

Well, I've found a great challenge in turning committed time into flexible time and that's exactly what you were talking about in the car. For most, driving a car is committed time. You can't do much else while you're driving. But that's how the average mind thinks. Listening to music is the only other thing they can think to do.

But like you said, you can learn another language. I like to buy audiobooks and LEARN while I drive. I call it "Drive Time University."

Learn to turn committed time into flexible time and you'll dramatically improve your productivity and progression.

skooloflife 119 pts moderator

SeanDavis I know what you mean about rock climbing. You cant' do anything else while you're surfing and that time is actually incredibly productive despite what people might think since we do some of our most creative thinking when we're disconnected. As far as the car goes, I think people are doing plenty when they listen to music, which is why I think audiobooks actually are a really good thing. Love the idea of drive time university :)/

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Ken Wert 95 pts

Love the way you broke down the average week and showed how much discretionary time we have on our hands. A very useful tool for recognizing the potential uses for that time. I'm always amazed to hear the reports about the amount of time the TV is on in the average household. SO many things that could be done with such a valuable resource!

Thanks for the reminder, Srinivas!

skooloflife 119 pts moderator

Ken Wert You know I didn't realize just how much time the average person spends watching TV. That blows my mind. I try to limit to about an hour a day and I only watch it on Netflix. I don't usually watch anything that requires me to watch commercials. I also think the worst thing anybody can do is turn on the TV first thing in the morning.

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TMNinja 48 pts

Love this! Of course, I could be biased... :)

Important lessons that you relate about being in a job that you do not enjoy. As you state, we spend most of our lives at work.

Make sure it is something that you enjoy, brings you happiness, and of which you are proud.

Otherwise, you need to stop being comfortable... and start being motivated.

(Oh... I just might use that...)

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skooloflife 119 pts moderator

TMNinja Craig, I thought we might hear from you on this one :). I think doing work that matters is important considering how much time we spend at work. It's just one of those things that people don't think nearly enough about in my opinion. Career counselors don't sit you down and say "you're going to spend 60 hours a week here, so you should really think about what you want."

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