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> <channel><title>Comments on: How to become a connector and leverage the hell out of your network</title> <atom:link href="http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/how-to-become-a-connector-and-leverage-the-hell-out-of-your-network/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" /><link>http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/how-to-become-a-connector-and-leverage-the-hell-out-of-your-network/</link> <description></description> <lastBuildDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2010 19:42:40 +0000</lastBuildDate> <generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2</generator> <sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod> <sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency> <item><title>By: Nathan Hangen - Digital Emperor</title><link>http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/how-to-become-a-connector-and-leverage-the-hell-out-of-your-network/comment-page-1/#comment-1950</link> <dc:creator>Nathan Hangen - Digital Emperor</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sun, 30 May 2010 01:17:37 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/?p=695#comment-1950</guid> <description>here&#039;s my only concern with connectors. Some people make me feel like I&#039;ve been used. If you&#039;re trying to connect, do it for the good of everyone and don&#039;t always be looking for the next score.
.-= Nathan Hangen - Digital Emperor&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/NathanHangenLifestyleBlog/~3/gKYjNaaLIDc/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;How to Build a Business on a Shoestring&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>here&#8217;s my only concern with connectors. Some people make me feel like I&#8217;ve been used. If you&#8217;re trying to connect, do it for the good of everyone and don&#8217;t always be looking for the next score.<br
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isPermaLink="false">http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/?p=695#comment-1932</guid> <description>Always give without expectation of return.  This is the code of The Yakezie!
.-= Financial Samurai&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.financialsamurai.com/2010/05/28/who-needs-a-job-when-you-hav-a-private-school-degree/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Who Needs A Job When You Have A Private School Degree&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Always give without expectation of return.  This is the code of The Yakezie!<br
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isPermaLink="false">http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/?p=695#comment-913</guid> <description>This is really great stuff.  Far too many people are comfortable living in there little world surrounded by bubble. These same people will wonder why good things in life do not come to them.  Give, Help, Ask.  Put your community before yourself and the Community will give back ten-fold.Thank you,Ryan H, www.ryanhanley.com/
.-= Ryan Hanley&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/AlbanyInsuranceProfessional/~3/AjBVPNYDKcg/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Water Your Christmas Tree!&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is really great stuff.  Far too many people are comfortable living in there little world surrounded by bubble. These same people will wonder why good things in life do not come to them.  Give, Help, Ask.  Put your community before yourself and the Community will give back ten-fold.</p><p>Thank you,</p><p>Ryan H, <a
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isPermaLink="false">http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/?p=695#comment-581</guid> <description>I think you hit the nail on the head when you said to give without expectation of getting. People who are positive often bring that out in other people.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think you hit the nail on the head when you said to give without expectation of getting. People who are positive often bring that out in other people.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Gordie Rogers</title><link>http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/how-to-become-a-connector-and-leverage-the-hell-out-of-your-network/comment-page-1/#comment-503</link> <dc:creator>Gordie Rogers</dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 15 Oct 2009 08:43:48 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/?p=695#comment-503</guid> <description>I like the idea of giving first and giving much. It&#039;s a great way to get someone to warm to you. Also, you&#039;re only doing good by giving, even if you get nothing in return.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I like the idea of giving first and giving much. It&#8217;s a great way to get someone to warm to you. Also, you&#8217;re only doing good by giving, even if you get nothing in return.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Hypnotic Blogger</title><link>http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/how-to-become-a-connector-and-leverage-the-hell-out-of-your-network/comment-page-1/#comment-500</link> <dc:creator>Hypnotic Blogger</dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 15 Oct 2009 03:15:08 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/?p=695#comment-500</guid> <description>Srini,
I truly enjoy this post. Allow me to add;
When we strike up conversations, it shouldn&#039;t matter if the other party is someone people deem important or otherwise. It could the janitor and it&#039;s totally fine.Yesterday at the carwash, I asked the guy cleaning my car some questions about himself - where he&#039;s from, does he like his job, has he had lunch,..just my usual casual, friendly chat. And you know what, he gave my car an extra polish! .. well of course I&#039;m so pleased I gave him an extra tip after that :-)</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Srini,<br
/> I truly enjoy this post. Allow me to add;<br
/> When we strike up conversations, it shouldn&#8217;t matter if the other party is someone people deem important or otherwise. It could the janitor and it&#8217;s totally fine.</p><p>Yesterday at the carwash, I asked the guy cleaning my car some questions about himself &#8211; where he&#8217;s from, does he like his job, has he had lunch,..just my usual casual, friendly chat. And you know what, he gave my car an extra polish! .. well of course I&#8217;m so pleased I gave him an extra tip after that <img
src='http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /></p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Positive Gangsta</title><link>http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/how-to-become-a-connector-and-leverage-the-hell-out-of-your-network/comment-page-1/#comment-499</link> <dc:creator>Positive Gangsta</dc:creator> <pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2009 23:31:21 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/?p=695#comment-499</guid> <description>Communication is the key to much success in life. Great post!</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Communication is the key to much success in life. Great post!</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Armen Shirvanian</title><link>http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/how-to-become-a-connector-and-leverage-the-hell-out-of-your-network/comment-page-1/#comment-498</link> <dc:creator>Armen Shirvanian</dc:creator> <pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2009 20:52:43 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/?p=695#comment-498</guid> <description>Hey Srinivas.I am on that same wavelength about talking to lots of people and giving to them, through providing knowledge, listening, connecting them to someone else, teaming up with them on an activity, and so on.  There is loads of opportunity in place for those that see the potential.Trying to get something from each person is the weak way to do things, and if you want to be different, which everyone seems to want to be, trying to give to others would be the way to go.  That is quite different from what we often see where the focus is to take what is able to be taken.Thanks for this.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Srinivas.</p><p>I am on that same wavelength about talking to lots of people and giving to them, through providing knowledge, listening, connecting them to someone else, teaming up with them on an activity, and so on.  There is loads of opportunity in place for those that see the potential.</p><p>Trying to get something from each person is the weak way to do things, and if you want to be different, which everyone seems to want to be, trying to give to others would be the way to go.  That is quite different from what we often see where the focus is to take what is able to be taken.</p><p>Thanks for this.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Gilbert Ross</title><link>http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/how-to-become-a-connector-and-leverage-the-hell-out-of-your-network/comment-page-1/#comment-497</link> <dc:creator>Gilbert Ross</dc:creator> <pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2009 18:10:31 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/?p=695#comment-497</guid> <description>Excellent article Srini!  This info was really helpful and inspiring for me. It got me thinking on how much I need to practice this skill! well done.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Excellent article Srini!  This info was really helpful and inspiring for me. It got me thinking on how much I need to practice this skill! well done.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Positively Present</title><link>http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/how-to-become-a-connector-and-leverage-the-hell-out-of-your-network/comment-page-1/#comment-496</link> <dc:creator>Positively Present</dc:creator> <pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2009 11:00:59 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/?p=695#comment-496</guid> <description>Excellent advice here! I&#039;m working on my connector skills and I definitely wish I could go back and make better connections... But there&#039;s no time like the present to get started!</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Excellent advice here! I&#8217;m working on my connector skills and I definitely wish I could go back and make better connections&#8230; But there&#8217;s no time like the present to get started!</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> </channel> </rss>
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