Guest Post: Reflections and Revelations from Christmas’ Past (or Why You Should Help Your Parents Figure Out the Internet)

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This is a guest by Jenny Mick from WorkinonARamp. She writes some pretty out there posts, but that’s why I liked her.You should take her 2 cents since we’re in a recession.


The joy of Christmas would have been incomplete without the five to six hours of manual labor from Santa’s elves and financiers.


nintendosetup Guest Post: Reflections and Revelations from Christmas’ Past (or Why You Should Help Your Parents Figure Out the Internet)

Sure, Santa* delivered. But without the assembly help from mom and dad, the happy children would have been left to play contently in empty boxes.

Toy train sets and Nintendos do not assemble themselves.

And so, my parents did not force us to watch replays of the Macy’s Day parade. They helped us put together the gifts we circled in the Toys ‘R’ Us magazine three months prior.

So now, with an impending Christmas season and dreams of empty boxes wrapped with currency, my reflection on Christmas’ and birthdays prior has brought a revelation.

The gap in technology between the new workforce and retirees offers a unique opportunity for repayment.

Sure, I’d love to say “Merry Christmas” by sending my parents on a cruise to Ireland. I’d like to fly them to Greece to say thank you for never missing one of my thousands of athletic events.

But what about helping my dad transfer the overwhelming interest in his photos from Facebook to his bank account?

Do I put on a red suit? Do I say I’m too busy with my own web site?

When mom and dad need us to set up a website, fix the Wi-Fi connection, figure out how the hell to set up voicemail on their cell phones, what do we do?

Our parents grew up with real metal toy trains. We grew up with plastic. Today, five year olds have cell phones and laptops. We live in a world that is hyper-connected. It’s crazy. It’s real.

Sure, our parents could solve 98% of their technical difficulties with a little time on Google. We probably could have figured out the assembly of our toys. There were instructions. But we were three.

So maybe now it’s our duty to use the lessons learned in the college classes they made possible to fully understand just how much a little assistance can help. Competitive advantage for example?

We can continue to sample their life advice. With 50+ years on this planet, they clearly have that advantage.

But, rather than send them to the WordPress help forums, could we just type up a basic “How To” and save them three hours in 20 minutes?

We have an advantage. But do we use it? Do you use it?

*Santa = a high school student my dad paid to don a don a pillow-stuffed red suit and deliver our “From: Santa” gifts at 8 a.m. I blame my gullibility on this fact alone.



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@Srini: I stray away from web site design, I leave that to the fanatics. A blog I can setup in a day.
I'm glad my parents aren't on facebook so I'm free to say whatever I please. Hell, even my brother blocked me lol.

@Robby - It's definitely a time commitment. Have you ever read the book "If you Give a Moose a Muffin.."? That book epitomizes the lists of questions you will likely have after the laptop purchase.. but I'm sure there's a level out after the basics are covered, right?

@Srini - My dad has Facebook. I had to do some "wall cleaning" from the college years before pushing "accept," but we peacefully share the social network. Funny you mention the blog setup, that's always my "start a website" solution for people. A website? I have no clue. Wordpress though, I can make that work...

@Robby: Yeah I hear ya. My dad asked me to design a web site for his lab. He's a college prof. I don't know jack about web site design. But, I told him i could setup a blog. My parents are also on Facebook so they see my status updates from time to time. They know I had busted an eardrum surfing when I called them the day after it happened.

Funny you mention this, my mom is asking for a laptop of her own and wants to start surfing the net and do all that fancy stuff we take for granted. Maybe it's time to do something nice and actually get her a laptop and teach her the basics.