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isPermaLink="false">http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/?p=1310#comment-4076</guid> <description>Came across this article from one of your retweets. Some people do get into situation where lack of options exist. In that case, I think looking at the job being a short-term option is ok if not desirable. Chemistry with your supervisor makes the difference between the work being pleasant vs. living hell.Going with the token of long-term thinking/presence, other than being committed to my lifestyle, ventures, and followers/customers, I don&#039;t believe that I want to be at a single employer for more than 5 years. I think employers ask that just to ensure they don&#039;t lose the investments on the employee 5 years down the road (i.e. from self-interest point of view). Also, with a lot of traditional jobs, creativity is hard to come by unless you think and act outside the box. These behaviors are usually reprehended for disobedience excuses. Maybe that&#039;s just my bad luck with employment in general.
.-= Stanley Lee&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/sysil/EiKX/~3/TaS8defkjMc/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Dangers of Impaired Biking and Walking&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Came across this article from one of your retweets. Some people do get into situation where lack of options exist. In that case, I think looking at the job being a short-term option is ok if not desirable. Chemistry with your supervisor makes the difference between the work being pleasant vs. living hell.</p><p>Going with the token of long-term thinking/presence, other than being committed to my lifestyle, ventures, and followers/customers, I don&#8217;t believe that I want to be at a single employer for more than 5 years. I think employers ask that just to ensure they don&#8217;t lose the investments on the employee 5 years down the road (i.e. from self-interest point of view). Also, with a lot of traditional jobs, creativity is hard to come by unless you think and act outside the box. These behaviors are usually reprehended for disobedience excuses. Maybe that&#8217;s just my bad luck with employment in general.<br
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isPermaLink="false">http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/?p=1310#comment-1196</guid> <description>@Rich: Creativity has been the one thing that almost every job I&#039;ve had in the past didn&#039;t offer me. Obviously as a blogger, opportunities to be creative  are what really make it a blast.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Rich: Creativity has been the one thing that almost every job I&#8217;ve had in the past didn&#8217;t offer me. Obviously as a blogger, opportunities to be creative  are what really make it a blast.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Rich</title><link>http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/career-choices-and-signs-of-success-or-failure-2/comment-page-1/#comment-1191</link> <dc:creator>Rich</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sat, 06 Feb 2010 04:09:36 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/?p=1310#comment-1191</guid> <description>You give some great tips here.  I especially like the one re: Creativity, because I think we&#039;re the most creative when we feel happy and fulfilled.
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isPermaLink="false">http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/?p=1310#comment-1185</guid> <description>Hey Bryan,The amazing thing is I walked away from a job a few months back. I ended up with a position I enjoy, I don&#039;t work hours that I hate, and I actually make more money. The thing is you will always be more successful doing the things you enjoy. More money is a byproduct of that.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Bryan,</p><p>The amazing thing is I walked away from a job a few months back. I ended up with a position I enjoy, I don&#8217;t work hours that I hate, and I actually make more money. The thing is you will always be more successful doing the things you enjoy. More money is a byproduct of that.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Bryan Cromlish</title><link>http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/career-choices-and-signs-of-success-or-failure-2/comment-page-1/#comment-1184</link> <dc:creator>Bryan Cromlish</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 05 Feb 2010 17:46:23 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/?p=1310#comment-1184</guid> <description>Great Post Srinvias, very relevant to me right now.  I think the signs of success you provided are critical for being truly happy at a position you chose. If you are not happy at work, chances are you wont last long due to low motivation.Money is often not a good enough motivator for many!Thanks again for this</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great Post Srinvias, very relevant to me right now.  I think the signs of success you provided are critical for being truly happy at a position you chose. If you are not happy at work, chances are you wont last long due to low motivation.</p><p>Money is often not a good enough motivator for many!</p><p>Thanks again for this</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Srinivas Rao</title><link>http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/career-choices-and-signs-of-success-or-failure-2/comment-page-1/#comment-1183</link> <dc:creator>Srinivas Rao</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 05 Feb 2010 15:20:14 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/?p=1310#comment-1183</guid> <description>@Armen: Having recently gone through the whole grad school experience myself and seeing friends go through it, I think that your friend not knowing what he&#039;s going to do with it could be a bad thing or he&#039;ll figure it out along the way. I knew I had some sort of path in mind, but ironically I wanted to get as far away from internet related stuff as possible.@Robby G: There is no doubt that&#039;s one of the easiest, yet deadliest traps to fall into. As Tony Robbins said &quot;someday&quot; is a road that leads to nowhere.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Armen: Having recently gone through the whole grad school experience myself and seeing friends go through it, I think that your friend not knowing what he&#8217;s going to do with it could be a bad thing or he&#8217;ll figure it out along the way. I knew I had some sort of path in mind, but ironically I wanted to get as far away from internet related stuff as possible.</p><p>@Robby G: There is no doubt that&#8217;s one of the easiest, yet deadliest traps to fall into. As Tony Robbins said &#8220;someday&#8221; is a road that leads to nowhere.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Robby G</title><link>http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/career-choices-and-signs-of-success-or-failure-2/comment-page-1/#comment-1181</link> <dc:creator>Robby G</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 05 Feb 2010 06:21:49 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/?p=1310#comment-1181</guid> <description>The &quot;It&#039;s temporary&quot; mentality is what usually gets people stuck in a job they hate. Day by day they keep saying one day they will quit and get something better, but that better opportunity never comes. It&#039;s important to find what you love and do exactly that, even though you can pick up side jobs to make some money to survive on, not forgetting your true passion is crucial.
.-= Robby G&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.shiteilike.com/make-the-first-move/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Make the First Move&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The &#8220;It&#8217;s temporary&#8221; mentality is what usually gets people stuck in a job they hate. Day by day they keep saying one day they will quit and get something better, but that better opportunity never comes. It&#8217;s important to find what you love and do exactly that, even though you can pick up side jobs to make some money to survive on, not forgetting your true passion is crucial.<br
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isPermaLink="false">http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/?p=1310#comment-1180</guid> <description>Hey Srinivas.There are a lot of signs to watch for.  Those signs of failure sure are worth looking out for.  One too many of those could signal that there is an issue at hand.One example is from a person I got to know.  He told me straight up that he is getting a master&#039;s degree, but only mainly to continue his schooling, and he doesn&#039;t really have a follow-up plan of interest.  He also pointed out that his dad doesn&#039;t really enjoy his job either.It is good to take plans for a career into account before it becomes more rigid.You are right that creativity is a highly-prized quality of a successful venture.  We all have creativity to unleash, and not being allowed to do that has a large effect on our happiness.
.-= Armen Shirvanian&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TimelessInformation/~3/yaH_PQxH4YA/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;An Interview With Gail Brenner&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Srinivas.</p><p>There are a lot of signs to watch for.  Those signs of failure sure are worth looking out for.  One too many of those could signal that there is an issue at hand.</p><p>One example is from a person I got to know.  He told me straight up that he is getting a master&#8217;s degree, but only mainly to continue his schooling, and he doesn&#8217;t really have a follow-up plan of interest.  He also pointed out that his dad doesn&#8217;t really enjoy his job either.</p><p>It is good to take plans for a career into account before it becomes more rigid.</p><p>You are right that creativity is a highly-prized quality of a successful venture.  We all have creativity to unleash, and not being allowed to do that has a large effect on our happiness.<br
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isPermaLink="false">http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/?p=1310#comment-1179</guid> <description>@Wilson: You&#039;ve made a choice that many people decide not to. You&#039;re thinking of a short term sacrifice for a long term gain and that&#039;s really the only way to get to living the life of your dreams.@Andrew: The only reason I know these things because I&#039;ve done the exact opposite of all of them :). As Oscar Wilde once said &quot;Experience is the name people give their mistakes&quot;</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Wilson: You&#8217;ve made a choice that many people decide not to. You&#8217;re thinking of a short term sacrifice for a long term gain and that&#8217;s really the only way to get to living the life of your dreams.</p><p>@Andrew: The only reason I know these things because I&#8217;ve done the exact opposite of all of them <img
src='http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> . As Oscar Wilde once said &#8220;Experience is the name people give their mistakes&#8221;</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Andrew Swenson</title><link>http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/career-choices-and-signs-of-success-or-failure-2/comment-page-1/#comment-1178</link> <dc:creator>Andrew Swenson</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 05 Feb 2010 00:58:02 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://theskooloflife.com/wordpress/?p=1310#comment-1178</guid> <description>I think I said this in a Tweet earlier, but for someone who has experienced some of your signs on both sides of the failure / success spectrum, this post is scary accurate.It sortof feels like you were inside my head, recounting the mistakes and triumphs of my past in a way I&#039;ve been unable to articulate.And you&#039;re right, choosing the right job is a daunting task. Sometimes, though, I think you have to experience what *isn&#039;t* right before you know exactly what you want.I just wish I would have figured it out a year and a half ago. :)Thanks for posting Srinivas.
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