5 Career Building Tips They Never Taught us in School

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1. Don’t Put All Your Eggs In One Basket When it Comes to Your Career

Up until a few years ago I bought into the 5 myths that help corporate America to fuel its own existence. I thought I would climb the ladder, make it to a corner office and that my job was something I could count on for a steady stream of income.  But once you’ve been laid off a few times and lost a job or two, it makes you realize that no matter how great your job is, you simply can’t put all your eggs in one basket. It’s a bit like playing Russian roulette with your career. Sometimes making too many life plans limits your true potential.

2. Career Counselors Gamble With Your Future

University and graduate school career offices are full of people giving students advice on careers they’ve never worked in themselves. This is a bit like taking advice on how to get rich form a person who doesn’t have any money.  While they may have the best of intentions, the success of a career office at most schools is really determined by one thing: placement statistics. You simply can’t measure the happiness, fulfillment, and long term success of this kind of advice.  So be careful, and don’t let these people gamble with your future.

3. Do more than just show up at work everyday

“ What you do off the job determines how far you’ll go on the job” – Zig Ziglar

If all you do is show up for work everyday, do what’s expected of you and go home, I’ve got news for you. You’re not going to make much progress in your career anytime soon. This is the kind of mentality that keeps people trapped where they are  scratching their heads as to what it takes to get ahead in their careers.  Too many people never do much more to educate themselves after they finish their formal education, despite the fact that we live in a world today where you can give yourself an education that kicks the crap out of the one you got in school.  There are a number of things you could do to continually develop yourself

  •  Start a blog
  • Join Toastmasters
  • Volunteer Somewhere
  • Learn a New Skill

All of the above will contribute to your personal and professional development in a positive way.

4. Parents  Aren’t Necessarily Qualified to Give You Advice on Your Career

Unless your parents have the career you want or are living the life you want, then they aren’t necessarily qualified to give you a career advice. My parents are supportive, but most of their advice about my career is highly generalized because they don’t live in the world that I do.  I think the very nature of parents is that they’re primarily concerned with your safety, stability, and survival. This is all well and good, but it’s not what sets you up for thriving.  Your tolerance for risk has a tremendous impact on your potential for success.

Find somebody who has the job you want to have and take their advice. With the technology at your disposal it’s easier than ever.

5. Don’t Just do Your Job, Do Something Worth Talking About

A few weeks ago my friend Joel released  The impossible Manifesto. Take some time to read it. I know there are many people who simply don’t have the freedom to sell everything they own and leave the country in a month. Some people need the income from their jobs. And if you’re really fortunate you love your job. The good news is that’s not the only way to push the limits of what’s possible in your life.  The bad news is that you’re going to have to do something radically different. Even in the context of a day job you have the opportunity to challenge the status quo.  But most people take the risk of playing it safe (sounds like an oxymoron).  Playing it safe is a guaranteed way to remain ordinary and average. Real progress only happens when you start to veer outside the confines of your job description and your comfort zone.

Stop waiting for permission to be extraordinary. Class dismissed.

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Mark_Harai 293 pts

You're an inspiration Srini - and living what you share... That's what makes it so powerful.

Keep driving hard bro - an international media empire is within your grasp.

skooloflife 119 pts moderator

Mark_Harai Thanks Mark. Your words of encouragement have always kept me going even with the peaks and valleys.

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ThomasBell1 5 pts

" Find somebody who has the job you want to have and take their advice. With the technology at your disposal it’s easier than ever."

Any skool lessons on how to use a social network more effectively...I'm from SC and not to sound stereotypical or anything, but we are really the last to grasp things down here it's like the whole world is 3 steps in front of all of us lol! I'm trying to be a little smarter than that though lol!

skooloflife 119 pts moderator

ThomasBell1 No worries. More power to you for making an effort. Believe it or not the web is full of great advice on how to use social networks more effectively. There are a few books I'd recommend that can help you with the basics:

Relationship Marketing by Mari Smith

Never Eat Alone by Keith Ferrazi

If you combine the ideas in those two books you'll be well on your way. You also might have a social media club in your area which would be a starting point. Hope that helps.

My latest conversation: How He Became a Millionaire by Age 26 with Dave Asprey

ThomasBell1 5 pts

skooloflife Thanks Srini going to check em out right now!!

DalaiLina 8 pts

"most people take the risk of playing it safe"

So well said. If I could give one piece of advice for my kids it is this. Don't make decisions based on fear of the future. People are rewarded for being authentic and following their hearts. I want them to follow their wildest dreams!

skooloflife 119 pts moderator

DalaiLina Yeah, it's definitely not what guarantees that somebody will thrive, yet that's exactly where so many people put their efforts.

My latest conversation: How He Became a Millionaire by Age 26 with Dave Asprey

amy4leaf 11 pts

Great advice, Srini. This post is like saying "follow your heart" without sounding like a wussy. ;)

Seriously though, you're doing great things and every time I read your posts, I feel inspired to push myself further out of my comfort zone! Looking forward to what's in store this year...

skooloflife 119 pts moderator

amy4leaf Thanks Amy. From reading what you're up to, I think you're pushing the boundaries of your comfort zone and really quickly. That's awesome. LEt's celebrate with some champagne at the finish line.

My latest conversation: How He Became a Millionaire by Age 26 with Dave Asprey

Vishnu's Virtues 11 pts

good advice Srini. Anyone who's not completely happy where they are should make plans to move on to work that suits them better. I'm hearing from a lot of people who are struggling with Mondays. I actually look forward to work on Monday. If one's struggling with Mondays, then they need to start taking a new approach to their career and implementing the solid advice here.

skooloflife 119 pts moderator

VishnusVirtues yeah, if you dread mondays that's a problem. That means you live for the weekends and only 2/7 of your life is truly meaningful. That's a dangerous place to be.

My latest conversation: How He Became a Millionaire by Age 26 with Dave Asprey

LuckytobeYou 6 pts

hi Srini-

this advice is valuable because it encourages us all to be more than just one thing (the days of just doing one job and that is your defined role are long gone)... and it is so much fun to explore, you do not have to travel to an exotic outer place, but maybe to a new territory within yourself.

skooloflife 119 pts moderator

LuckytobeYou yeah, I think we're all meant to do more than just one thing. We would not have been born with so many abilities if that was all we were meant for.

My latest conversation: How He Became a Millionaire by Age 26 with Dave Asprey

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skooloflife Most welcome Srini - it's always nice to get a dose of inspiration from you : )

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savvysexysocial thanks Amy

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skooloflife Thanks for all you do and write, been a great inspiration and source of encouragement! Looking forward to more. :)

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re: "University and graduate school career offices are full of people giving students advice on careers they’ve never worked in themselves. This is a bit like taking advice on how to get rich form a person who doesn’t have any money."

Lol. And how is this different from taking college classes from professors that never used the knowledge they are teaching in the "real world"? :)

In reality, good career counselors use tools that access government [&other] research databases that track industry hiring demand/trends, as broken down into geographical areas. They use personality analysis tools to match an individual with a suitable profession. College career counselors, if they are good, have many contacts in local and regional businesses, corporations, govt , education and non-profit organizations, etc., so they are generally aware of what kinds of jobs are available, in demand, and so forth. In some cases, probably rare ones, they are aware of creative or entrepreneurial job opportunities. In general, the organizational culture of colleges/universities is more conformist and bureaucratic ("follow rules") than innovative/creative. Unfortunately this is the consequence of having an educational model based on factory learning that performs more or less on an acceptable basis for the majority, but does not perform well for the small percentage of creative, achievement-oriented innovators and entrepreneurs who usually have to resign themselves to "surviving" the education establishment rather than getting a lot out of education.